Here are five easy steps on approaching the opposite sex: 1: Make eye contact. You have to understand, a slow, intentional gaze from across the room is not making eye contact, most people will consider this as “staring” and it is very unlikely that they will like it. Making eye contact is done by approaching someone and talking to them, all the while holding that person’s gaze comfortably and relaying the message that you are very much interested in him or her.

Smiling shows that you are friendly and you have self-confidence, and as we all know, it is one of the most attractive traits a member of the opposite sex can have. 3. Use an opening line. It is very important to have an opening line so as you will not stutter and falter when trying to talk to woman, especially a very gorgeous one. According to studies, a simple yet straightforward approach is the best. In a recent survey here are some good examples of opening lines: “Hi.” “I feel a little embarrassed about this, but I’d like to get to know you.” “Do you want to dance?” “That’s a very nice dress you have on.”

Also according to the survey, these are some of the lines that are the biggest turn-offs: “You remind me of my ex.” “Bet I can out-drink you.” “I play the field and I think I just hit a home run with you.” “Your place or mine?” 4: Expand the conversation by telling something about yourself. You can say something like, “I’m new in town and I just want to know where all the good places are.” Or, ” we’re very lucky to have such a nice park (or wherever you are) in this area.” By doing so, this will give the other person a opening to pick up on what you said and continue the conversation.

Encourage the other person to open up and talk about whatever interests him or her – careers, hobbies and interests. Ask questions and give him/her your undivided attention. Let them know that you find them fascinating. With this, you have to be well versed in a lot of things, try picking up a couple of books or listen to the latest news, just so that you can also respond to what he/she is saying. Also, If you are to give them compliments, one good advice is to make it personal, for instance, instead of saying, “those earrings are nice,” say something like, “you’ve got a beautiful smile.” Now, after reading all of this, don’t expect yourself to be an expert yet. Knowledge alone will not make you the best. You have to go out and practice all that you have learned. Hope you picked up a thing or two from what you’ve read.